— Ivan W. Lam (@IvanWLam) May 3, 2015
Everyone Functions Differently
- I am the son of Chinese families. The first half of my childhood I lived in China, and the other half in the United States.
- I am an introvert. I enjoy staying in more often than going out.
- I am probably somewhere between an ectomorph and a mesomorph. It takes more effort to gain any muscle mass.
- I care a lot about my health. I listen to my body, I eat as cleanly as I can, I make time for exercise, and I make sure I get enough sleep.
- I am a visual person, definitely more so than verbal or auditory. I enjoy watching a movie more than reading a book or attending a concert.
- I consider myself a mix of left- and right-brained. I love when things are organized, logical, and methodical, but I also enjoy being different, innovative, and expressive.
- I probably have color-graphemic synesthesia, where I associate each number and letter to a color. For example, the letter E is solid brown, and the number 2 is a warm yellow.
- I am fascinated by languages, their history and grammar. I’d love to learn and be fluent in as many as I can.
- I am a man of science. It comforts me to have something I can absolutely depend on in life: the objective laws of physics and math.
- I am fascinated by new technologies and I embrace it for how it can improve the world. I am still waiting for a mind-powered virtual assistant.
- I save as much as I can for retirement. But I also make sure I can live happily now.
- I am an optimist. I believe that living with a positive attitude has a higher chance of success and happiness.
The specific combination of these things (and more) make up who I am. One change would mean a slightly different approach to life, would lead to different decisions and consequences, and would therefore create a different person. There are a lot of combinations possible, and more than seven billions of them (unique ones) exist in the world.
Everyone has their story, their motivations, and their philosophies. They often do what they think is right for them, but it may be perceived by others as wrong. While the concept of right and wrong is a much larger philosophical discussion, the fact remains that everyone functions differently. The more of us who can understand and become conscious of this, the more peaceful, I believe, and less conflicts our world would get.
But then again, that’s only what I think; that’s how I function.
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